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Circle of Grace



Circle of Grace

Dear Parents,

Out of concern for all God’s people and in response to the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops’ Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People, the Diocese of Lafayette-in-Indiana has provided a program for the safe environment education of children and young people supported and mandated by

Dioceses/eparchies will establish ‘safe environment’ programs. They will cooperate with parents, civil authorities, educators, and community organizations to provide education and training for children, youth, parents, ministers, educators, and others about ways to make and maintain a safe environment for children.  Dioceses/eparchies will make clear to clergy and members of the community the standards of conduct for clergy and other persons in positions of trust with regard to sexual abuse.  Article 12 – Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People.

This program is called Circle of Grace.  It is meant to supplement and be integrated into the programs and curricula for the formation of young people in our school.  Circle of Grace aims to equip our children and young people by arming them with essential knowledge and skills grounded in the richness of our faith.  This program helps children and young people to understand their own (and other’s) dignity in mind, body, and spirit.

What is a Circle of Grace?

The Catholic Church teaches that God has created each of us as unique and special. Genesis 1:27 tells us that we are created “male and female in God’s image” and that God saw this as “very good.”  In that goodness, we are meant to respect ourselves and everyone else as persons created and loved by God. Adults assist children and young people to recognize God’s love by helping them to understand that each of us lives and moves in a Circle of Grace. You can imagine your own circle of grace by putting your arms above your head then circle down in front of your body including side to side. This circle, front to back, holds who you are in your body and through your senses.  It holds your very essence in mind, heart, soul, and sexuality.

Why is it important to help our children understand the Circle of Grace?

God intends our relationships in life to be experiences of divine love.  Respectful, nurturing, loving relationships increase our understanding of our own value and help us to love others.  It is never too early to help children and young people understand how very special they are and how relationships in life are called to be sacred.   Understanding this can help them to protect the special person they are and to be respectful of others.

Adults, especially parents, as they strive to provide a safe and protective environment, hold the responsibility to help children and young people understand and respect their own dignity and that of others.   A truly safe and protective environment is one where children and young people recognize when they are safe or unsafe and know how to bring their concerns, fears, and uncertainties to the trusted adults in their lives.

How is the Circle of Grace Program different from other protection programs?

According to research, one in four girls and one in seven boys will be sexually abused by age eighteen.2   Many protection programs focus on “stranger danger”; however, up to ninety percent (90%) of the time the perpetrator of abuse is known to the child or young person such as a relative or family friend.   Circle of Grace goes beyond just protection by helping children and young people understand the sacredness of who they are and how to seek help through their relationships with trusted adults.

What are the topics of the junior and senior high school curriculum?

We encourage you to have a conversation with your youth about these important lessons below:

  • Grade 7 – Saying No to Disrespect: Honoring Everyone’s Circle of Grace
  • Grade 8 – How to be Morally Responsible in Today’s Culture
  • Grade 9 ‐ Lesson 1: Communion of Saints, Lesson 2: Mary and Joseph say “Yes”,  Lesson 3: When the Circle is Broken, Lesson 4: Action PLAAN‐ How Safe are your relationships?
  • Grade 10 ‐ Levels of Intimacy and Influence
  • Grade 11 ‐ N.O.T.I.C.E.: When Boundaries Go Wrong
  • Grade 12 ‐ Love and the Theology of the Body, How Healthy are your relationships?

How will the Circle of Grace lessons be taught at Central Catholic?

All Circle of Grace lessons will be taught during the week of December 10, 2018. They will be co-taught by your child’s Theology teacher along with another teacher in the department.  Attached to this email, you will find the following:

  • An Opt-out Form – If you, as the primary educator, choose to have your child opt-out of this lesson please complete this Opt-out Form and return it to the Main Office at Central Catholic.
  • Circle of Grace – This document has information that is meant to assist the parents with discussions on the topics taught in the lesson as well as other sensitive topics that may arise.

Please do not hesitate to contact me with any questions you might have. It is a blessing to be partners in education with you.

In Christ,

Patrick Duggins

Theology Department Chair

Opt-out Form/Circle of Grace:  https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B_ydxAoD0kSaWlVuRmhoWDhORjV3MDVxMTNUVGQwOXJXUmh3


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